We will
further see that sexuality refers to binary (man-woman),
and that sexuation is a relationship between three ones,
which uses what we let us call the Other (the
Other sex).
Other sex
whose function, is to make possible the deciphering of
the reading by differentiating the small letters and the
words of the text which one is reading!
The
illiterate ones, the real illiterate ones, are always
very surprised to note that the letters of the alphabet
have two pronunciations. In french "Z", as a letter of
the alphabet is pronounced "zed", but is the sound
"zzz" when reading. S is pronounced "ess" in the
alphabet and "ss" or "zz" with the reading (or no
sound as in the final "S" of "autres" (others).
Not so easy
!
Then, for
"A" which is the first letter that one teaches to the
children or with illiterate ones, there is a special
difficulty. "A" as an alphabetical letter is read the
same way that reading letter "A". But depends of the
letter that comes just after him !"AI" will be
pronounced "è" in French like in the word "maison"
(home).
What a
pity !
One who
has access to the reading does not even see all
this complex articulation when he uses it. It is like
if, once the the letters and words are recorded, one
does not need to know how it functions to use them.
This is
the raison of the necessity to record letters and words.
A functionality that permit consensus which binds the
humans. They must be sexuated (registered in themselves)
so they can have the use of registered words.
One can
see then, that each letter, once it has been recorded by
a human, refers to three things:
- its
own written form, the writing (what is sight)
- its
pronunciation as a letter of the alphabet (what is
hearing)
- its
pronunciation in the reading of the words of a text
(what is interpretation).
There are
three terms, it is not binary!
Thus,
sexuality is a bad reference to speak about the
difference of sexes, because its refers to binary and
does not take into account the fact that a human being
lives the first part of his life with a not registered
sexuation.
The field
of sexuation proposes to us a choice between two
opportunities, which are :
- to
be sexuated (like the human beings).
- or
not sexuated (as the amoebas which reproduces by
scissiparity).
The human
beings have an obligation of acceptance, of registering
this sexuation so that it produces all its
effectiveness, like a birth notification.
The
registration is a symbolic formality which makes what is
recorded, opposable to everybody, including the one who
registered himself and who will have then no more
recourse to a denial as : "I was not there". The
recording leads to a full existence of what has been
recorded.
A
child who is not declared is supposed not to exist by
the law.
